Mother should answer to child crying
Toddlers and little children have their own language to communicate with us and that is child crying.
Child crying is given from Nature to “tell” us that our child needs us. This is particularly true for the first 2 years of child’s life, when it is impossible to tell us how it feels or what it needs.
Our children are the most amazing creatures in the world. And their first attempts to communicate are so cute. This is the way your child tells you that he or she needs your hug, your attention, touch and voice. If you neglect this massage as an attempt to educates your child from the very beginning this may cause problems in the future.
Don’t forget that at this stage of its development children are so vulnerable that if ignored in some other moment the child may not be able to express his or her feelings.
Parents often see their child’s behaviour during their prism and not realize that this is the degree of maturity to which children are gone, and it is different from ours. Try to see the world through the eyes of your child. If your child cries because he or she doesn’t wants to eat when sick, do not force it – embrace the child, calm it, talk to the child soft and quite. Children really do not understand why they do not feel good, the child can not say “I’m sick, so I do not eat, but I will be better tomorrow – it is very sad and difficult time.”
If the child doesn’t express the anger in early childhood, the anger doesn’t disappear. The psychological principle that “frustration leads to aggression” is the right explanation in this case. Parents should really understand how badly for their child’s character is to ignore child crying or if the chills is punished when trying to express his or her feelings.
Specialist says that ignoring child crying is like ignoring the warning signal of a smoke detector because the signal disturbs us. This signal is meant to disturb us so that we should pay special attention. Only a deaf person would ignore a smoke detector, yet many parents are acting like deaf person to child crying. Crying, like the loud sound, is meant to capture our attention so that we can attend to the important needs of the child. It just makes no sense to think that nature would have provided all children with a routinely used signal that serves no good purpose.
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